Re: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw: Thoughts...

[Haytham Faraj <haytham@puckettfaraj.com>]

Barclay, won't say either. His helpfulness is of limited value. 

Haytham Faraj 
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On Dec 7, 2011, at 6:55 PM, "Shinn Capt Scott R" <scott.shinn@usmc.mil> wrote:

> Haytham,
>  I have this already...  it was part of Hudspeth's stuff.  I still haven't been able to get a hold of Cowan.  Will try again tomorrow morning.
> 
>  Re: the email, does Barclay have an opinion of Klay's truthfulness since he thought she was lying about the relationship?  The more people who say she's a liar, the better.
> 
> 
> ~Russ
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Haytham Faraj [mailto:haytham@puckettfaraj.com] 
> Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2011 10:46
> To: Shinn Capt Scott R
> Subject: FW: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw: Thoughts...
> 
> Russ,
> 
> See the below.  I had Barclay send it to me after we spoke yesterday.  I
> don't recall seeing it before. He believed that the tone of the email
> clearly indicated to him that there was a relationship between Klay and Rowe
> which Klay denied.
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Barclay Maj John R [mailto:john.r.barclay@usmc.mil] 
> Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2011 7:02 AM
> To: Haytham@puckettfaraj.com
> Subject: FW: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW:
> Fw: Thoughts...
> 
> Forwarded, as requested.
> 
> John R. Barclay
> Maj, USMC
> EA to Dir., USMB
> Office (202) 433-3993
> Cell (202) 498-8904
> fax (202) 433-4752
> john.r.barclay@usmc.mil
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Klay 1stLt Ariana B 
> Sent: Thursday, January 20, 2011 8:23
> To: Barclay Maj John R; Hudspeth LtCol Nicole K
> Subject: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw:
> Thoughts...
> 
> Please note the forwarded email's relation to the attached timeline.  After
> this email, Rowe told me that I needed to call Maigan and fix how he I had
> humiliated him in front of his wife or he would talk to the Command and that
> no one would believe me about the incident with him and Jeremy.  He also had
> Maigen come over to visit me so I would not commit suicide.  This is right
> after I the incident with Rowe and Jeremy. 
> 
> 
> V/R
> 1stLt Ariana Klay
> S-3A /Assistant Operations Officer
> H&S Bn, HQMC, Henderson Hall
> Phone: (703).614.3639
> FAX: (703).614.7192
> ariana.klay@usmc.mil
> 
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Ariana Klay [mailto:arianaklay@gmail.com] 
> Sent: Thursday, January 20, 2011 8:18
> To: Klay 1stLt Ariana B
> Subject: Fwd: Fw: Thoughts...
> 
> 
> 
> ---------- Forwarded message ----------
> From: jim rowe <jroweusmc@yahoo.com>
> Date: Mon, Aug 30, 2010 at 1:27 PM
> Subject: Fw: Thoughts...
> To: arianaklay@gmail.com
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
>    So - I thought I would try to email you what's on my mind.  I can
> never find my words to adequately express myself when I'm on the phone.  In
> no particular order...
>     
> 
>    *    Ariana: This is a pretty big one right now, because there is
> something going on that I can't put my finger on.  I know you say you're not
> cheating, but that doesn't explain the following: 
> 
>        *    The way you look at and talk to her.  You
> communicate on a very intimate level with her - your body language speaks
> volumes.
>        *    The way she looks at you and talks to me.  She looks
> at you the same way you look at her - there's a level of intimacy there.
> She is way too complimentary of me.  It's like she is buttering me up for
> some reason.  She doesn't treat the other girls the same way - but she
> doesn't talk to their husbands/fiances/boyfriends like she talks to you
> either.
>        *    You were super weird about going to the Miss DC
> pageant.  You didn't want to go, and then at the last minute you went.  You
> said that it was because of Chris, but I have doubts about that.  You're not
> the kind of guy to go out of your way for others - especially guys as lazy
> and troublesome as Chris.  So why was it so important?  After the fact, I
> find out that Ariana was there, too.  She has pictures of you guys at the
> pageant on her facebook page (I'm not friends with her on facebook - she
> just doesn't limit who can see her photo albums).  It looks like you and
> Chris were there to be escorts for her and Sonja.  There are pictures of you
> but not Chris - where did he go? You didn't come home that night.
>        *    The parade that the pageant girls attended was
> awkward.  This is when you officially started to ignore me at the Center
> House.  I don't know why I even came and subjected myself to the
> embarassment for the rest of the summer.  Hindsight is 20/20, I guess.
> After this parade was when there were multiple weird texts from Ariana to
> you..  You said you were trying to make sure that your Marines hooked up
> with the pageant girls.  I gave you the benefit of the doubt, but now I'm
> not so sure that was the right thing to do.
>        *    The staff NCO parade you were totally MIA.  It was
> like you got totally crazy because you knew I wasn't going to be there.  You
> came home and then left in the middle of the night again when you knew I was
> mad at you.  You said you slept in your changing room, but Eric couldn't
> find you.  Eric kept changing his story as to where he looked and what he
> found/didn't find.  It seemed like you were telling him what to say.  Where
> were you?  Where did you go?  Did you sleep with Ariana that night?  Did you
> meet her somewhere?
>        *    The last 2-3 Fridays you have been adament about
> talking to Ariana alone.  The night that you, me, Eric and Lauren were the
> last ones to leave the Center House and she was on duty - you would not
> leave the Center House.  When we were finally ready to go, Eric, Lauren and
> I waited outside for you for several minutes because you were inside talking
> to Ariana.  What were you talking about?  Why was it so important?
>        *    Last Friday was the pinnacle of embarassment.  Why
> was it so important to Ariana that we all go out on 8th street?  Why was she
> asking you before she asked me?  When you and Jeremy finally made it to
> Molly Malone's and Ariana left with Tim and Karin's friend - you practically
> ran after her.  Why did you care if she left with another guy?  Were you
> jealous?  If she's Tim's friend - shouldn't HE have been more concerned than
> you?  And again when Jeremy and I were trying to leave with you, you wanted
> us to give you a minute so that you could talk to Ariana ALONE.  What the
> hell?  not too drunk to make sure you had deleted all your messages and call
> history from your phone.  What were you trying to hide from me?  You knew
> that I would check your phone - what did you NOT want me to see?  You
> mentioned something about an investigation 
>        *    Whether you've physically cheated or just developed
> a close personal relationship with her - I don't care.  I just want to know
> what is going on.  The longer you lie about it, the worse it is going to
> get.  I've been cheated on before - I took too long to address it with
> Brandon.  I will not be put in that position again. I'm trying to believe
> you and give you the benefit of just being stressed out over this job, but
> it is getting harder and harder to do.
> 
>     
> 
>    *    Drinking: I think I've been pretty forgiving on this front.
> You have a drinking problem.  Admit it.  Quit lying to me about how much
> your drinking.  You have not kept to our agreement at all about only having
> a few beers.  As soon as we had that initial conversation, you renigged on
> it almost immediately.  At the dining in you were so wasted it was
> embarrassing.  Time after time I have tried to be forgiving and
> understanding of the stress that you're under out here.  I try to be cool,
> but it infuriates me that you have taken advantage of me so many times.  How
> much longer do you want me to put up with your lying?  You were never
> planning to just drink a couple of beers. You just wanted me to agree to you
> drinking again, so you didn't have to hide it all the time from me.  You're
> right - I have become more distant towards you and a bit cold.  Can you
> blame me?  You don't hear a word I say.  My concern comes across as nagging
> to you.  I don't know what to do - so I'm shutting down.  I pray every time
> that you get so drunk that God will show me the right thing to do and say.
> Do I go?  Do I suffer with a drunk for the rest of my life?  
> 
>     
> 
>    *    Getting out of the Marine Corps: I don't know what to say
> about this.  I'm sorry if I don't seem more interested in this option right
> now, but I suppose it is because I've heard this before.  You talked about
> getting out of the Marine Corps when we first moved to DC.  You talked about
> it again about six months ago - before the parade season started.  Do I
> think the Marine Corps is causing our problems?  No, I don't.  Do I think
> you'll be happier out of the Marine Corps?  No, I don't.  I think that you
> love the Marine Corps and you're a great Marine.  What you don't like is
> that fact that you can't separate yourself from the BS of 8th and I.  You
> saw it when you first checked in and said that you didn't want to become one
> of them - and that's exactly what you've done.  You've become one of the
> pretentious 8th & I Marine officers.  You're only concerned about your
> reputation and your image - I don't know why you care - you've been working
> so hard to ruin it as far as I can tell.  You say you want to do more and
> give back to more relevant things - like Haiti relief, etc, but you haven't
> tried to get more involved in a church or a volunteer community.  Why should
> I believe that you would do any of that if you get out of the Marine Corps?
> Outside of the Marine Corps, you will still have to get a job - a job where
> you'll have to belong to corporate America and deal with just as much BS as
> you did in the Marine Corps just on a different level.  
> 
>    I'm sorry if this is coming across as angry - but I am angry.  I'm
> angry.  I'm frustrated.  I'm hurt.  I love you so much, Jim, but I don't'
> know what to do anymore.  I don't want to lose you, but I also don't want to
> be a fool.  I just want you to stop lying to me.  
> 
> 
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