Re: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw: Thoughts...

[Haytham Faraj <haytham@puckettfaraj.com>]

No. I did not. 

Haytham Faraj 
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On Dec 7, 2011, at 7:16 PM, "Shinn Capt Scott R" <scott.shinn@usmc.mil> wrote:

> Suck.  Oh well.  
> 
> I never got a response from Combe re: those 2 new female LTs.  Did you?
> 
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Haytham Faraj [mailto:haytham@puckettfaraj.com] 
> Sent: Wednesday, December 07, 2011 19:11
> To: Shinn Capt Scott R
> Subject: Re: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw: Thoughts...
> 
> Barclay, won't say either. His helpfulness is of limited value. 
> 
> Haytham Faraj 
> Sent from my iPhone
> 
> On Dec 7, 2011, at 6:55 PM, "Shinn Capt Scott R" <scott.shinn@usmc.mil> wrote:
> 
>> Haytham,
>> I have this already...  it was part of Hudspeth's stuff.  I still haven't been able to get a hold of Cowan.  Will try again tomorrow morning.
>> 
>> Re: the email, does Barclay have an opinion of Klay's truthfulness since he thought she was lying about the relationship?  The more people who say she's a liar, the better.
>> 
>> 
>> ~Russ
>> 
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Haytham Faraj [mailto:haytham@puckettfaraj.com] 
>> Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2011 10:46
>> To: Shinn Capt Scott R
>> Subject: FW: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw: Thoughts...
>> 
>> Russ,
>> 
>> See the below.  I had Barclay send it to me after we spoke yesterday.  I
>> don't recall seeing it before. He believed that the tone of the email
>> clearly indicated to him that there was a relationship between Klay and Rowe
>> which Klay denied.
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Barclay Maj John R [mailto:john.r.barclay@usmc.mil] 
>> Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2011 7:02 AM
>> To: Haytham@puckettfaraj.com
>> Subject: FW: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW:
>> Fw: Thoughts...
>> 
>> Forwarded, as requested.
>> 
>> John R. Barclay
>> Maj, USMC
>> EA to Dir., USMB
>> Office (202) 433-3993
>> Cell (202) 498-8904
>> fax (202) 433-4752
>> john.r.barclay@usmc.mil
>> 
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Klay 1stLt Ariana B 
>> Sent: Thursday, January 20, 2011 8:23
>> To: Barclay Maj John R; Hudspeth LtCol Nicole K
>> Subject: Email from Maigen Rowe forwarded to me from Capt Jim RoweFW: Fw:
>> Thoughts...
>> 
>> Please note the forwarded email's relation to the attached timeline.  After
>> this email, Rowe told me that I needed to call Maigan and fix how he I had
>> humiliated him in front of his wife or he would talk to the Command and that
>> no one would believe me about the incident with him and Jeremy.  He also had
>> Maigen come over to visit me so I would not commit suicide.  This is right
>> after I the incident with Rowe and Jeremy. 
>> 
>> 
>> V/R
>> 1stLt Ariana Klay
>> S-3A /Assistant Operations Officer
>> H&S Bn, HQMC, Henderson Hall
>> Phone: (703).614.3639
>> FAX: (703).614.7192
>> ariana.klay@usmc.mil
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Ariana Klay [mailto:arianaklay@gmail.com] 
>> Sent: Thursday, January 20, 2011 8:18
>> To: Klay 1stLt Ariana B
>> Subject: Fwd: Fw: Thoughts...
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> ---------- Forwarded message ----------
>> From: jim rowe <jroweusmc@yahoo.com>
>> Date: Mon, Aug 30, 2010 at 1:27 PM
>> Subject: Fw: Thoughts...
>> To: arianaklay@gmail.com
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>>   So - I thought I would try to email you what's on my mind.  I can
>> never find my words to adequately express myself when I'm on the phone.  In
>> no particular order...
>> 
>> 
>>   *    Ariana: This is a pretty big one right now, because there is
>> something going on that I can't put my finger on.  I know you say you're not
>> cheating, but that doesn't explain the following: 
>> 
>>       *    The way you look at and talk to her.  You
>> communicate on a very intimate level with her - your body language speaks
>> volumes.
>>       *    The way she looks at you and talks to me.  She looks
>> at you the same way you look at her - there's a level of intimacy there.
>> She is way too complimentary of me.  It's like she is buttering me up for
>> some reason.  She doesn't treat the other girls the same way - but she
>> doesn't talk to their husbands/fiances/boyfriends like she talks to you
>> either.
>>       *    You were super weird about going to the Miss DC
>> pageant.  You didn't want to go, and then at the last minute you went.  You
>> said that it was because of Chris, but I have doubts about that.  You're not
>> the kind of guy to go out of your way for others - especially guys as lazy
>> and troublesome as Chris.  So why was it so important?  After the fact, I
>> find out that Ariana was there, too.  She has pictures of you guys at the
>> pageant on her facebook page (I'm not friends with her on facebook - she
>> just doesn't limit who can see her photo albums).  It looks like you and
>> Chris were there to be escorts for her and Sonja.  There are pictures of you
>> but not Chris - where did he go? You didn't come home that night.
>>       *    The parade that the pageant girls attended was
>> awkward.  This is when you officially started to ignore me at the Center
>> House.  I don't know why I even came and subjected myself to the
>> embarassment for the rest of the summer.  Hindsight is 20/20, I guess.
>> After this parade was when there were multiple weird texts from Ariana to
>> you..  You said you were trying to make sure that your Marines hooked up
>> with the pageant girls.  I gave you the benefit of the doubt, but now I'm
>> not so sure that was the right thing to do.
>>       *    The staff NCO parade you were totally MIA.  It was
>> like you got totally crazy because you knew I wasn't going to be there.  You
>> came home and then left in the middle of the night again when you knew I was
>> mad at you.  You said you slept in your changing room, but Eric couldn't
>> find you.  Eric kept changing his story as to where he looked and what he
>> found/didn't find.  It seemed like you were telling him what to say.  Where
>> were you?  Where did you go?  Did you sleep with Ariana that night?  Did you
>> meet her somewhere?
>>       *    The last 2-3 Fridays you have been adament about
>> talking to Ariana alone.  The night that you, me, Eric and Lauren were the
>> last ones to leave the Center House and she was on duty - you would not
>> leave the Center House.  When we were finally ready to go, Eric, Lauren and
>> I waited outside for you for several minutes because you were inside talking
>> to Ariana.  What were you talking about?  Why was it so important?
>>       *    Last Friday was the pinnacle of embarassment.  Why
>> was it so important to Ariana that we all go out on 8th street?  Why was she
>> asking you before she asked me?  When you and Jeremy finally made it to
>> Molly Malone's and Ariana left with Tim and Karin's friend - you practically
>> ran after her.  Why did you care if she left with another guy?  Were you
>> jealous?  If she's Tim's friend - shouldn't HE have been more concerned than
>> you?  And again when Jeremy and I were trying to leave with you, you wanted
>> us to give you a minute so that you could talk to Ariana ALONE.  What the
>> hell?  not too drunk to make sure you had deleted all your messages and call
>> history from your phone.  What were you trying to hide from me?  You knew
>> that I would check your phone - what did you NOT want me to see?  You
>> mentioned something about an investigation 
>>       *    Whether you've physically cheated or just developed
>> a close personal relationship with her - I don't care.  I just want to know
>> what is going on.  The longer you lie about it, the worse it is going to
>> get.  I've been cheated on before - I took too long to address it with
>> Brandon.  I will not be put in that position again. I'm trying to believe
>> you and give you the benefit of just being stressed out over this job, but
>> it is getting harder and harder to do.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>>   *    Drinking: I think I've been pretty forgiving on this front.
>> You have a drinking problem.  Admit it.  Quit lying to me about how much
>> your drinking.  You have not kept to our agreement at all about only having
>> a few beers.  As soon as we had that initial conversation, you renigged on
>> it almost immediately.  At the dining in you were so wasted it was
>> embarrassing.  Time after time I have tried to be forgiving and
>> understanding of the stress that you're under out here.  I try to be cool,
>> but it infuriates me that you have taken advantage of me so many times.  How
>> much longer do you want me to put up with your lying?  You were never
>> planning to just drink a couple of beers. You just wanted me to agree to you
>> drinking again, so you didn't have to hide it all the time from me.  You're
>> right - I have become more distant towards you and a bit cold.  Can you
>> blame me?  You don't hear a word I say.  My concern comes across as nagging
>> to you.  I don't know what to do - so I'm shutting down.  I pray every time
>> that you get so drunk that God will show me the right thing to do and say.
>> Do I go?  Do I suffer with a drunk for the rest of my life?  
>> 
>> 
>> 
>>   *    Getting out of the Marine Corps: I don't know what to say
>> about this.  I'm sorry if I don't seem more interested in this option right
>> now, but I suppose it is because I've heard this before.  You talked about
>> getting out of the Marine Corps when we first moved to DC.  You talked about
>> it again about six months ago - before the parade season started.  Do I
>> think the Marine Corps is causing our problems?  No, I don't.  Do I think
>> you'll be happier out of the Marine Corps?  No, I don't.  I think that you
>> love the Marine Corps and you're a great Marine.  What you don't like is
>> that fact that you can't separate yourself from the BS of 8th and I.  You
>> saw it when you first checked in and said that you didn't want to become one
>> of them - and that's exactly what you've done.  You've become one of the
>> pretentious 8th & I Marine officers.  You're only concerned about your
>> reputation and your image - I don't know why you care - you've been working
>> so hard to ruin it as far as I can tell.  You say you want to do more and
>> give back to more relevant things - like Haiti relief, etc, but you haven't
>> tried to get more involved in a church or a volunteer community.  Why should
>> I believe that you would do any of that if you get out of the Marine Corps?
>> Outside of the Marine Corps, you will still have to get a job - a job where
>> you'll have to belong to corporate America and deal with just as much BS as
>> you did in the Marine Corps just on a different level.  
>> 
>>   I'm sorry if this is coming across as angry - but I am angry.  I'm
>> angry.  I'm frustrated.  I'm hurt.  I love you so much, Jim, but I don't'
>> know what to do anymore.  I don't want to lose you, but I also don't want to
>> be a fool.  I just want you to stop lying to me.  
>> 
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